The Autism Epidemic

There is an autism epidemic internationally that grandparents need to know about. Stay tuned for more.

**** April is National Autism Awareness Month. There’s no better time to spread the word about early childhood development. ****

Greetings,
I am writing on behalf of CDC's "Learn the Signs. Act Early." campaign. We would like to promote the campaign and its free resources to Grandparenting.org visitors! This information would be a perfect compliment to the autism information on your website. Grandparents have increasing interaction with their grandchildren and are instrumental team members in raising happy and healthy children. 
***Do you know the developmental milestones to monitor in your grandchild?
What is the "Learn the Signs. Act Early."?

"Learn the Signs. Act Early." is a public awareness campaign to educate parents about childhood development, including early warning signs of autism and other developmental disorders, and encourages developmental screening and intervention. During their child’s early years, parents are keenly aware of changes in physical development, such as height and weight. But there are also important milestones children should reach in terms of how they play, learn, speak, and act. Smiling for the first time, making eye contact, and pointing are a few of these developmental milestones. 

What does the campaign provide?

Materials include fact sheets, tips for talking with parents, milestone checklists, posters, growth charts, and flyers. All materials are free and are available in both English and Spanish. You can visit the campaign's Web site to view the materials (which can be ordered online) and learn more about LTSAE at www.cdc.gov/actearly.

The attached document contains copy and the campaign icon to place on your website. We believe this campaign has the potential to bring about successful outcomes in childhood development and see your site as a great way to help us reach this goal. We are currently working on an article for grandparents about how they can play a role in monitoring their grandchild’s development. 

If you have an autistic grandchild, here are some great tips to have the best time possible during the holidays. From the Autism Society of America website

Holiday Tips for Families Living with Autism

The holiday period can be a stressful time for those on the autism spectrum because it is a breach in their daily routine. However, if we anticipate the holidays and what they entail before they arrive, the person with autism can be made more comfortable and at ease—ensuring joy for all throughout the holidays!

At ASA, all tips are transferable—pass them along! These tips can be easily adapted by a parent, a friend, a sibling or any family member. Try them out with your loved one on the spectrum. A few tips can really pay off big.

“Everyone in the car!” Starting Off on Successful Outings

* To help day trips run more smoothly, travel in two cars so that one person can return home with your loved one on the autism spectrum if he/she gets distressed.
* Eat before leaving home or bring food with you.
* Bring a quiet toy, like a calculator, to a restaurant, during religious services or other social activity.

“We are going to Grandma’s!” Tips for Social Gatherings

* When going to large social gatherings, arrive early to let the person on the autism spectrum get accustomed to the growing number of people.
* If he/she becomes distressed during a social gathering, pick a quiet place to go or take him out for a walk.
* When visiting someone’s home, ask to remove breakables from reach; think carefully about visiting those who refuse to accommodate your request.
* Bring a preferred item, favorite toys or stuffed animals to a family gathering or other social event.
* Before going to a family event, look at individual pictures of family members and teach him/her their names.
* Before going to a social event, use “social stories” and practice simple courtesy phrases and responses to questions, either verbal, with pictures, or gestures. (“How are you?” “I am fine.” “How is school?” “Good.”)
* Let trusted others spend time with your child if they volunteer.
* Ask for help if you need it. Families and friends are often eager to participate.

“Do we have to go to the mall???” Shopping Without Stress

* To help your loved one with autism get used to malls, go early before the stores open. Walk around, get familiar with the building, buy a snack when the stores open, and leave. Extend the amount of time at the mall each time you go.
* When shopping, be positive and give small rewards, such as a piece of candy, for staying with you.
* To teach your child not to touch things when shopping, visit a clothing store or another store with unbreakable objects; this gives him/her an opportunity to model behavior and minimize risk.
* When shopping, bring a helper to have an extra set of eyes and hands until you are confident of a safe experience.
* Provide headphones or earplugs to the person with autism spectrum to moderate the noise and activity around them. 

Going to Worship Services

* Talk with the worship leader about what he/she might expect and how the congregation might support the family.
* Arrange for a friend or neighbor to come with you to stay with siblings should the person with autism spectrum need to leave during the worship service.
* Bring a quiet object of concentration, such as a rubber band, pictures, books, or an object of visual focus, can be very helpful, particularly if it has religious significance to enhance the worship experience.
* Have the child or adult on the spectrum help out. Depending on their ability, they can:
o Greet people with a smile, and hand out service bulletins.
o Gather up the bulletins and papers left in the pews after the service, restoring order to the sanctuary.
o Assist in holiday volunteer activities of the congregation, such as the delivery of cards, toys or food.
* For detailed tips for worship services, read our Living with Autism series.

Above all...

Be Consistent. Remember to apply the techniques used to involve the person with autism in daily activities to these special activities.

Discuss your expectations. Unwelcome surprises are never fun for anyone.

Be prepared and stand firm. Accept well-meaning but unwanted advice with the phrase, “I’ll have to think about that,” and smile.

Be safe and have fun!

Enjoy the holiday season!

Your friends at the Autism Society of America